SAIB ABBY: Kaum tsib xyoos dhau los kuv tau khiav tawm ntawm kuv cov menyuam yaus thiab thaum kawg tau nyiaj rau kuv tus kheej.Lawv muaj peev xwm nyob hauv tsev vim kuv pheej them kuv cov nqi tsev.Lawv txiv - kuv tus ex - nyob ib sab ntawm tsev neeg.
Tam sim no tsis muaj ib tug ntawm kuv cov me nyuam xav muaj dab tsi ua nrog kuv los yog kuv tsev neeg, thiab lawv tsis xav muaj dab tsi ua rau kuv.Kuv xav tias lawv xav tias lawv raug tso tseg vim kuv yog niam txiv lawv tuaj yeem cia siab rau.Puas muaj ib yam dab tsi uas kuv tuaj yeem ua tau los kho peb txoj kev sib raug zoo?- Pennsylvania Runaway Niam
Nyob zoo niam: Yog, qhia rau koj cov menyuam tias koj muag lub tsev, kuv xav tias nws yog koj tam sim no.Kuv paub tseeb tias lawv yuav pib "kev sib txuas lus" nrog koj sai li sai tau thaum lo lus mus txog lawv.Nej pheej them nyiaj ntau rau lub tsev kom lawv muaj chaw nyob.Yog tias koj yuav tsum "khiav" los ntawm lawv qhov kev xav tau hauv qab, koj ua txhua yam zoo.Thov txwv tsis pub siv.Koj tau cawm koj tus kheej thiab koj yuav tsum tsis txhob xav phem lossis ua txhaum rau nws.
SAIB ABBY: Kuv nyuam qhuav pib tham nrog ib tug txiv neej los ntawm kuv yav dhau los.Kuv nyiam nws heev.Peb tau nyob ntawd txhua lub sijhawm thoob plaws lub xyoo vim tias peb ob leeg muaj tej yam hauv peb lub neej los tsom mus rau ua ntej (xws li kuv qhov kev puas siab puas ntsws bipolar thiab nrhiav kev sab laj).
Txawm li cas los xij, kuv tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj plaws tau hem tias yuav coj kuv tawm ntawm nws lub neej yog tias kuv pib kev sib raug zoo nrog nws.Ntawm qhov tod tes, tus txiv neej no ua rau kuv xav tias kuv raug hluav taws - hauv txoj kev zoo, tau kawg.Tab sis ntawm qhov tod tes, kuv tsis xav plam kuv tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj.Kuv ua dab tsi?- Kev xaiv nyuaj hauv Illinois
Nyob zoo cov kev xaiv nyuaj!Koj nco ib yam tseem ceeb hauv koj tsab ntawv.Vim li cas koj tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj tawm tsam tus neeg no?Nws khib?Qhov no puas tuaj yeem cuam tshuam txog nws qhov teeb meem?Puas yog lub sijhawm kawg uas koj nrog nws?Ua cas phem?Koj tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj plaws yuav sim cawm koj, tab sis nws yog clumsy.nrog nws tham.
SAIB ABBY: Tsis ntev los no ib tug phooj ywg tuaj rau kuv lub tsev.Kuv muab kas fes thiab ncuav mog qab zib, uas kuv txiav thiab muab tso rau ntawm lub phaj.Nws hais tias nws tsis tshaib plab thaum lub sijhawm ntawd, nws thiaj li coj nws tsev mus noj thiab hais kom kuv qhwv nws los yog muab tso rau hauv lub thawv.Kuv tau hais tias yog, tau kawg, tab sis kuv tsis tau hnov txog qhov no, txawm hais tias cov neeg txhawb nqa feem ntau noj ib nrab noj mov hauv tsev los ntawm lub tsev noj mov.Puas yog kuv tawm ntawm qhov chaw no, lossis kuv puas muaj cai xav tsis thoob li kuv tam sim no?tus hostess xav tsis thoob.
Nyob zoo Surprise: Yog tias koj "xav tsis thoob" los ntawm qhov nws ua, koj yuav tsum ua siab mos siab muag.Koj cov phooj ywg ncaj ncees rau koj.tso siab rau nws.Tej zaum nws yuav nyiam lub ncuav mog qab zib uas koj muab, tab sis nws tab tom saib nws qhov hnyav thiab xav tias nws yuav muab tso rau hauv lub tub yees kom txaus siab dua.Kuv tsis paub cov cai ntawm ethiquette, raws li cov ncuav qab zib yuav tsum tau noj nyob rau hauv lub xub ntiag ntawm hostess.
Nyob zoo Abby tau sau los ntawm Abigail Van Buren, tseem hu ua Jeanne Phillips, thiab tau tsim los ntawm nws niam, Pauline Phillips.Hu rau Dear Abby ntawm www.DearAbby.com lossis PO Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
Peb tuaj yeem tau txais nyiaj them yog tias koj yuav khoom lossis sau npe rau ib tus account los ntawm ib qho ntawm cov kev sib txuas ntawm peb lub xaib.
Los ntawm kev tso npe rau lossis siv lub vev xaib no, koj lees txais peb Cov Cai Kev Pabcuam, Txoj Cai Tswjfwm Ntiag Tug thiab Daim Ntawv Qhia Cookie, thiab koj txoj cai ntiag tug hauv California (Cov Neeg Siv Daim Ntawv Pom Zoo tau hloov kho Lub Ib Hlis 1, 2021. Txoj Cai Tswjfwm Ntiag Tug thiab Daim Ntawv Qhia Cookie 2022 hloov kho 1 Lub Xya Hli).
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Lub sij hawm xa tuaj: Nov-30-2022